Ben Oyekunle

May 1, 1952 — April 10, 2026

Engineer, teacher, pastor, husband, father, grandfather — and a steady presence to everyone who loved him.

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Service details

Funeral weekend

Watch live

Friday

May 8, 2026

4:00 – 7:00 pm

Wake

Callahan Fay & Caswell Funeral Home, 61 Myrtle St, Worcester, MA 01608

Saturday

May 9, 2026

Dress code: White outfits. Burgundy headgear for those dressing in traditional.

9:00 – 10:00 am

Viewing

Cross of Light Ministry, 584 Cambridge St, Worcester, MA 01610

10:00 am – 12:00 pm

Funeral service

Cross of Light Ministry, 584 Cambridge St, Worcester, MA 01610

1:00 pm

Burial

Bellevue Cemetery, 131 Still River Rd, Harvard, MA

After burial

Reception

Fellowship Building, 7 Elm St, Harvard, MA

Sunday

May 10, 2026

10:00 am

Church thanksgiving service

Cross of Light Ministry, 584 Cambridge St, Worcester, MA 01610

Travel

Places to stay nearby.

For guests traveling in, these hotel options are closest to the burial and reception in Harvard. You can also search for Airbnbs or other hotels near Harvard or Devens.

Boxboro Regency (recommended)

Closest to the burial and reception in Harvard. Call the hotel and mention the Ben Oyekunle remembrance to get the group rate.

$129/night + tax

978-263-8701

His story

A life remembered.

A prince from Ejigbo

Ben Adebisi Oyekunle was born on May 1, 1952 in Ejigbo, Osun State, Nigeria — a prince of Ika-Orangun, where his father, Oba Abraham Iwaloye Oyekunle, reigned as the traditional ruler. A proud Yoruba man, Ben completed his schooling in Ghana, always top of his class, before making his life in the United States.

Education and career

In 1972 Ben secured a scholarship to MIT, graduating with distinctions in Electrical Engineering and Management. He went on to earn an MS in Computer Software Engineering from Columbia University. Ben built an illustrious career across financial services, telecommunications, and technology consulting. In the latter years of his career, he turned his focus to education — completing a Master's in Teaching and teaching math in Worcester Public Schools. He retired in 2023 to focus on his family and faith.

Faith, family, and the things he loved

Alongside his wife, Pastor Bukola T. Oyekunle, Ben co-founded Cross of Light Ministry in Worcester in 2005 and was ordained as a Pastor in 2010. He founded the Bethel Bible Institute, educating the community on the Word of God. He loved the Celtics, tennis, Arsenal, Jeopardy, and 60 Minutes. His taste in music ran wide — from gospel to Kenny Rogers, Bob Marley, and Herbie Hancock.

He is survived by his wife of 40 years, his children Remi, Yomi, Funmi, Ronke, and Deji, his grandchildren Reina and Micah, and a wide community who will miss him deeply. A warrior who triumphed over many odds, Ben ultimately passed in peace — a gift, his family believes, from God.

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In his memory

Ways to support.

Support goes to the family and to causes Ben cared about, including Mass General Brigham, Angel Flight NE, and Patient Advocate Foundation.

With love,
the Oyekunle family.

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